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Christmas Gift Guide 2023

2/12/2023

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Welcome to my first ever Christmas Gift Guide!

I wanted to showcase the incredible women and non-binary people in business that I have had the pleasure of knowing and working with. These folks are forging their own paths, running amazing small businesses and providing gorgeous products and services.

By supporting these businesses you are helping them provide for themselves and their families. You are helping them to become financially independent and have the freedom to do what it is that they are being called to do. 

And that's pretty amazing in my book! 

  • Sunranges Qoya - that's me! - Christmas special Qoya class gift certificates and Radiance Coaching
  • Love & Gratitude44 by Maryanne - Reiki and Maryanne's own essential oils blends
  • To Me and To Her - Pinot Gris and Pinot Noir wines made by Jac in Tasmania
  • Moonlight Collective - For all your crystal needs from Dora
  • Country Canvasses - Paint along with Tia in Malmsbury to create your own masterpiece in acrylic (canvasses are predrawn to help you!)
  • Beautiful and Balanced Bodies - Small female only fitness classes in Sunbury with Toni. Toni is focussed on helping you to feel good in your body rather than what it looks like. 
  • Nicole Lee - Oracle readings, coaching and healings
  • Divine Chaos Bodyart - Holistic tattooing with Rene - Christmas Special get 20% more value on your gift card purchases

You can click on each of the images below and it will take you to the business' website. 
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Finding your inner radiance

29/11/2023

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I am a show pony - look no further than the pics below for proof! I show up as myself, wearing what make me feel good and try to have as much fun as I can. 
 
But I've had people tell me I need to turn it down, to not be so “out there”. For a long time, I tried to fit into this expectation, this mould of what I should be. Do you know what? Its completely EXHAUSTING. You always have to think quickly about what you're going to say if it fits that ideal, decide if that outfit is too loud and colourful, if you should go down the water slide with your kid.
 
NO MORE! I'm going to wear colour in the sea of black that is Melbourne. I'm going to be loud, laugh even louder and bring joy to everything I do. I'll wear the bikini, shorts, tank top because I want to. I'm doing me and if you don't like it, the door is over there!
 
I got to this place slowly, gradually peeling back the layers of expectation. Of my father. Of my employer. Of my friends. Of society in general. Qoya helped me to work out who I was and what the hell it was that I wanted. I connected to my body, got out of my endless chattering monkey brain and slowed down. I felt all the feelings in my body and moved with them. Honoured them for keeping me safe and slowly releasing them.
 
Finding Regena Thomashauer and the School of Womanly Arts super charged my coming into myself. I connected with my most sacred feminine centre, my pussy and found even more ways of exploring pleasure in every day and every moment. I turned my glowing inner light up to 11. I am here and I am here to have fun! 
 
I am here to help you find your inner light, your radiance and turn it ON and UP! It's going to be a bumpy ride but I promise you will have fun along the way! Check out my Coaching page for ways to work with me to turn your light up!
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Have we met?

20/11/2023

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Did you sign up to my newsletter at a market or festival? 
 
Did we have a chat about the magic of Qoya and you felt that you wanted to know more?
 
Just in case you don't remember or came to my list a different way, here's my festival/market run down:
 
"Qoya is a free dance embodiment class for women. Its designed to get you out of your head and into your body. To dance with your emotions rather than having them spinning around in your head on a loop. Its a safe space where women gather together to support each other with no judgement or shame. 
 
"There's no way to do Qoya wrong and the way you know you are doing it right is that it feels good to you. You get to move your body for no other reason than its fun and pleasurable to move it. 
 
"I run weekly classes in Thornbury, Gisborne and Sunbury and then monthly on Zoom. 
 
“It's 90 minutes of YOU TIME and when you sign up to my newsletter (as you have) you'll get a code to book into your first class for free, so you can try it and see if its for you!”
 
So if you haven't been to a class yet, I'd love to know why not. Please hit reply to let me know as it will help me to see if there's anything I can do to make it easier for you to come!
 
And if you'd just like to book in now but can't find the code, comment below or send me and email and I'll send it to you again. The code doesn't expire and you can use it for any of my Qoya classes.
 
Come dance with me!
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You are exactly RIGHT as you are right now!

9/11/2023

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We are bombarded every day with the hundreds of ways that we are ‘wrong’. Billion dollar industries exist to make sure we don't forget it and buy their crap to ‘fix it’.
 
Too loud
Too quiet
Too big
Too small
Too old
Too young
Too hairy
Too emotional
Too hurt
Too immature
Too serious
Too aggressive
Too feminist
Too fucking everything
 
But what if there's actually nothing wrong with you at all? Seriously? Like nothing. That how you show up in the world is exactly right. 
 
It can be really hard to feel right in a world that likes to point out your ‘flaws’. I'm here to tell you that you ARE right. And I'm also here to encourage you to find yourself right. To start to approve of yourself and all that you do. 
 
Sure you'll fuck up, but then we all do. Stuff happens that we might have been able to avoid and that we might have wished we could. But if you had avoided it, what else might you have missed out on? If I hadn't had my breakdown, I doubt I would be here writing this email to you right now. I'd still be a lawyer wondering why I was miserable doing my ‘dream job’. 
 
To approve of all that you have done and what you want to do next takes some effort. A simple exercise that you can start with is to write down all the phrases that come into your mind when you disapprove of yourself. Then go back over your list and change it to an approving phrase instead. For instance, I used to be very critical of myself when I did simple mistakes in a crossword. So I changed the “you're an idiot” phrase to “its just a mistake”. 
 
Taking the time to do this exercise will dramatically improve your self talk and your own thoughts and feelings about you. Because you aren't wrong and you never have been. I'd love to hear how you go with it, comment below to let me know. 
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Shine on!

6/10/2023

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Last night I was again reminded of the power of women supporting each other. 
 
I held a class in Thornbury and one of the women shared her story of struggle, collapse and how she was trying to give herself the time and space to work out what was next. She spoke of the expectations she placed on herself that she “should” know what she was going to do next. That when she was resting and recuperating from such a life changing event that she felt as though she was wasting time and “should” be doing something productive.
 
Can you relate? 
 
I certainly can. As some of you know, I used to work as a lawyer. I had a mental breakdown that took me years to recover from. It was during that recovery period that I found Qoya. 
 
Qoya helped me to relax into my body. It showed me how to move with my emotions instead of having them do endless cycles in my head. It reminded me that I have incredible inner strength and power and how to access it again. And it showed me how powerful it is when women gather together. Supporting each other without judgement or shame. Just holding the space and allowing to come out what needs to. 
 
It has been one of my greatest achievements with this business creating safe spaces for women. Of course, I don't do it alone. Each of the women who attend my classes plays her integral part of space holding and demonstrating vulnerability. 
 
Women supporting women is, and has always been, extremely powerful. Because when your light shines, it does not diminish mine. You are lighting the way for me and all the other women to follow you. To show us what can be done. 
 
So shine on Sister!
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The 88 keys of a piano

26/9/2023

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Be a good girl.
Don't cry.
What's wrong with you?
Why are you always angry?
Aren't you over that yet?
 
As women, we get all sorts of messages from when we are tiny little girls about how we are meant to behave. Or what not to do. To be a good girl. To not show our true feelings because it'll upset someone else. 
 
But what happens to us when we suppress those feelings? When we don't have a healthy way of dealing with them? When all we do is push them down further every time they dare to bubble up?
 
We get women who are disconnected from themselves. Who don't know what they are feeling. Who don't know what they want because they've never been asked or even thought to ask themselves. Who keep thinking and thinking and thinking but never really deal with the underlying causes. 
 
Women are allowed to feel and be the entire range of the 88 keys of a piano. They DO NOT need to stay within the 5 or so “acceptable” keys. You are allowed, hell, you NEED to, feel the entire range of your emotions. The rage, the fear, the grief, the sadness, the p*ssed offness, the joy, the happiness, the turn on, your radiance. But how do we do that?
 
As part of my coaching training, I have been learning about ways to help you feel into those emotions in a safe controlled way. It's called Swamping. Here is a Spotify playlist for you to use to move through the Swamping practice.
 
Swamping is a practice where you first tap into all the shitty heavy feelings you have going on - you might like to start by focusing in on a particular event, for instance an interaction you had with a work colleague or at Centrelink or with your partner or your kids. Get into that Rage and then press play on your playlist and start moving with it. Punch a pillow, jump up and down, throw a tantrum like a 2 yo, scream. Do what ever it is that you need to to move that angry energy through your body. 
 
Then you move into Grief. Quite often our rage is disguised as grief. Feel that sadness in your body and move with it in the way your body needs to move with it. Cry if you want to. Wail if you can. 
 
Finally, you move into Turn On. Into bringing yourself back to yourself. Back to your inner light, your inner radiance. Gently caress your body, your face. Move your hips. Find the most pleasurable way to move your body right now. You are a Goddess in her most radiant power. Feel that. BE THAT. 
 
Have a go at Swamping and let me know how you go. If you have any questions about Swamping, please feel free to ask away. 
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I get to!

19/9/2023

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​I love the warmer weather. I'm not a huge fan of shoes at home and once it starts to warm up, I'm barefoot outside as much as possible. Feeling into the ground, getting dirty and being closer to nature. 
 
As I age, I am embracing this side of myself, the one that is supremely happy being dirty, not wearing much and relishing the sunshine. The inner child who just wants to make mud pies or mud angels or stomp her feet in puddles. The more I allow myself to play, to give myself permission to follow my intuition, the more I enjoy each and every day. 
 
I remind myself that we are only on this earth for a short time. I can find joy in each and everything I do as long as I remember to look for it. A nice simple way of doing this is to change your phrasing around tasks that you don't particularly enjoy. 
 
For instance, instead of “I have to do the dishes” try using “I get to… ”. You get to do the dishes because you have a home, a kitchen and food in the fridge. 
 
“I have to do my tax” becomes “I get to do my tax” because I receive an income which allows me to live in comfort. 
 
“I have to take the kids to soccer" becomes “I get to take the kids to soccer” because they enjoy it and I have the money for them to be able to play sport.
 
So what do you “get to” do today? I'd love to hear how you've been able to rephrase one of your less than desirable tasks, comment below to let me know.  
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NO is a complete answer

29/8/2023

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When was the last time you prioritised your pleasure over what is expected of you? When you listened to what it was that YOU wanted rather than someone else's ideas? When you picked YOU over everyone else?
 
So many women are people pleasers. We feel that we need to care for everyone else and make sure that they are happy regardless of what we want or how we feel. We don't honour our "NO" because the other person might get upset or be unhappy with that response. 
 
And then sadly, if we do honour our “NO” it's often not respected as a whole answer. You never have to justify or explain your reason to someone for saying “NO”.

​“NO” is and has always been a whole answer. 
 
Standing for your boundaries, standing for what it is that you want, being in your power has historically been frowned on for women. We've come a long way from being regarded as the property of our fathers and then the property of our husbands. BUT there still is a lot of push back on women taking their own power and agency over their own lives and bodies.

It seems as though no matter what we do, someone will have something to say about it. I am working towards, and am helping women to demand it, of a world where we can do what makes us happy without comment.

Keep your own last name. Change your last name. Not getting married. Getting married. Not having kids. Having kids. Returning to work after having kids. Not returning to work after having kids. Having multiple lovers. Being celibate. Drinking. Not drinking. Travelling the world solo. Doing yoga eight times a week. Not exercising. Taking pole dancing classes. Wearing a bra. Not wearing a bra. Leaving your body hair where it is. Removing your body hair. Having your nails done. Having a boob job. Sunbathing nude. Dancing in the moonlight howling at the moon. 
 
My dream is that as you read this post you start to see ways how you can honour what it is that YOU want. Because life is far too damn short to care about what other people think about what you are doing! 
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What Qoya can do for you

11/4/2022

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​So you've found out about Qoya but you're still a little unsure about what it is and how it can help you. I thought I would share with you how it helped me and how I have seen it help other women who are coming to my classes.
 
Before I go on, I'd like to let you in on a little secret. You are a divine being that is perfect as you are right now. EXACTLY as you are right now. There is no thing you must achieve or goal you must reach to become perfect. You are worthy. You are incredible. And you are deserving of love - especially your own love. You should be loving yourself sick! Look at you!! You are a miracle of life.
 
As human beings, we spend all our waking moments thinking. Our brains are working 24/7 (thank goodness or we'd all die in our sleep) but sometimes the thoughts we have can be negative and downright nasty. The idea of embodiment practices such as Qoya, is to redirect the mind's thought processes to feeling into our bodies. During a class, I invite you to feel into your body with questions like:
  • How can you make this movement feel even better?
  • What does it feel like to follow your heart?
  • What does the hand that you shook feel like compared to the other hand that stayed still?
  • What does it feel like when you are connected to your inner power? And where in your body do you feel it?
 
This process of concentrating on what particular emotions feel like in your body can be very enlightening. To notice what an emotion feels like and then using it as a dance partner, without thinking or choreographing, just moving the way your body wants to move with that feeling. Dancing with themes like "Wild", "Free", "Love Yourself", "Power Within" and "Shine Your Light" enable you to explore and notice things you may never have noticed about yourself before. You may have a realisation or an epiphany. That's when the magic happens.
 
For me, Qoya has helped me to realise and feel my own power and strength. That I am so much stronger than I have ever given myself credit for and I can do so much more than I ever thought I could. That the world is my oyster. That life is too short to worry about the size of my belly and that if I want to do something, I can and I should do it.
 
I don't think I would have ever worn a bikini if not for Qoya. I certainly never had any desire to open my own business - actually just the idea filled me with dread. I've stopped standing in my own way. Now if I see an opportunity, I will give it a go. Let them say no to me, rather than me being too scared to try and saying no to myself. I've pushed my edges in ways I never imagined and met some incredible women along the way. Women who have shown me that we are not in competition with each other. That another woman's success is to be celebrated as it raises us all higher.
 
I've seen Qoya work its magic for the women who are coming to my classes. It's helped them heal after heartbreak, shift the way they think about their body, empowered them to take a stand when they were being treated poorly. It's reminded them of the joy of moving their bodies for fun rather than the "no pain no gain" mentality of the gym. That dance doesn't need to be set steps or kept only for the nightclub floor. That the idea of "there's no way to do it wrong" in Qoya helped them to ditch perfectionist ideals in their everyday life. Unless its brain surgery, of course!
 
Qoya is a dance class like no other, and the benefits are more than you can ever imagine. I urge you to take advantage of your first free class and see if Qoya is for you. 
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How I prepare for a Qoya class

4/4/2022

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​As much as Qoya is an adult dance class, it is equally (if not more so) a spiritual practice. It is a safe space for women to gather, share, connect, feel and dance. It is for this reason that I set sacred space as part of my ritual to prepare the room for a Qoya class. 

Setting sacred space is the practice of bringing positive energy into a space through actions and thoughts. There are many different ways to set sacred space and it might be something that you do yourself, but didn't know that's what it's called. You can smudge the room with sage or palo santo, spritz a smudge spray, burn incense, dance, sing, meditate, set up an altar, call in the four directions, chant... there really are lots of ways to bring positive energy into a room.  

I use a number of ways to set sacred space. It not only prepares the room but it also prepares me for the class. I hold space for my dancers to allow them to experience the class in the way they need to. I ensure they feel safe to explore what they are feeling and empowered to share their experiences.  They are valued, heard and held exactly as they are at the time. 

To start setting sacred space, I pick a gentle Spotify playlist to play to set the mood in the room. I then move on to preparing my altar. I use mats, candles, crystals, oracle cards, leaves and flowers from my garden to build it. Each altar is unique to that particular class. While I set up my altar, I calm my mind from the day that was and try to be as present as I can be. 

Next I roll out my yoga mats, one for each dancer and one for me. My yoga mats are from Jarin Street, a female owned and operated indigenous business from Gadigal country (Sydney). The artwork on the mats is by indigenous women artists who are all recognised and properly compensated for their art. I had been eyeing these mats for weeks before I launched Sunranges Qoya but thought they were out of my price range. Then I won some money on the Melbourne Cup (and no I don't know anything about horse racing, it was a fluke!) and decided that it was a sign to buy them. I now have one of each of their designs. 

I light my bundle of sage and first smudge myself as another way to help ground and prepare me for the class. I then dance around the outside of the room with the sage, calling in the spirit of the Qoya to help me to create a sacred space. The word Qoya means "Queen" as an empowered woman, however there was also an ancient group of people who lived around Lake Titicaca, Peru that were called the Qoya. In my mind's eye, I am calling the Qoya of the Qoya, the empowered women of the people to help me with my class. 

I go on to sage each of the yoga mats to purify them and then the altar, in particular the oracle cards. I want to ensure that each woman who comes to my class is able to select the card that calls to her without interference from my energy or the energy of a previous class. I put my sage into the paua shell I bought in New Zealand in an upright position to allow the sage to burn itself out. 

Lastly, I go to my own mat and start to mediate while I wait for my dancers to arrive.  

How do you set the mood for your own self care practices and rituals? I'd love to hear about them in the comments below! 
An altar set up in St Kilda. Its a wooden floor with a yoga mat and then an altar of a stripy coloured mat, leaves, a green glass with a lit candle in it surrounded by oracle cards. On the wall behind it you can see African wall hangings.
A Qoya class set up. There is a carpeted floor with a black disk in the middle with gold markings on it. There's a blue glass with a tealight candle in it surrounded by crystals, leaves and bottlebrush flowers and oracle cards.
A small circular cane table with an altar on it. There are green crystals in two circles in the middle and then surrounded by a ring of oracle cards.
A Qoya class set up. A wooden floor with a yoga mat in the background. There's a blue vase with gum leaves and flowers in it surrounded by tealight candles, crystals and oracle cards.
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    Liz Reichard is a Radiance Coach and Qoya teacher.  Her mission is to help as many women as possible remember the power of their own bodies through Radiance Coaching & Qoya classes.

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​Liz the Radiance Coach and Sunranges Qoya in all its beingness acknowledges the Wurundjeri People of the Kulin Nation as the Custodians of the places we dance on. I acknowledge you as the custodians throughout the flow of time and honour the custodial role you have always undertaken. I love seeing the incredible connection of the Wurundjeri People with nature and their community in the motion of cultural dance. The beauty and power of nature here is a fabulous reflection of the care and conservation you have provided. The trees of this place are particularly majestic and fill me with ease and calm which is an awe-inspiring reminder of the sacredness and ancient nature of the land and of your people. I pay full-bodied respects to the Wurundjeri Elders past and present. I am committed to having the movement of my business to be an embodiment of respect to the Aboriginal community.
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